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VIDEO: Things I DIDN’T EXPECT (as a Large Family Mom)

Posted on April 8, 2019 by Jess Connell

Like many Americans in the 80s and 90s, (maybe like you?) I grew up with one sibling. So I didn’t really know what to expect as a mom of many children (we have 9 now). Some things we can anticipate: (laundry, food, and stacks of clothes bins!), but what I wanted to talk about in…

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“Your Daughter Needs a Sister!” (an Acceptable Christian Lie)

Posted on December 8, 2016 by Jess Connell

We heard it so much over the last 9 months. “MeiMei needs a sister!” “You poor thing! So many brothers! Do you know what this one is yet?” “Oh goodness, you guys need a little girl this time!” Now I know… having a son would mean we’d have 7 boys, right? I mean, 7. BOYS….

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Big Family Life: It’s Harder… and Easier.

Posted on May 23, 2016 by Jess Connell

It’s probably the most common thing I hear in the grocery store: “I couldn’t handle any more children. I haven’t even got patience for these TWO!” The funny thing is that I don’t ask people why they don’t have more children. Especially when I’m going through the checkout line… I can assure you my mind…

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So You Want to Have a Large Family?

Posted on April 29, 2016 by Jess Connell

So you want to have a large family? Or you’re on the fence and thinking about having more kids? Maybe your husband wants more, and you’re not sure? Or vice-versa? Before we got married, we both wanted a “lot of kids.” But back then we would have said that number was something like 3-5 kids. NOW?…

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How Embracing “Good Enough” Can Help You Be a Better Mom

Posted on March 23, 2015 by Jess Connell

Wanna know what my kids have for lunch these days? It’s pretty much the same thing every day: homemade lunchables. Thin deli-sliced ham or turkey, and cheese, with Ritz. Sometimes I have fresh fruit on hand to go with it. Other times, it’s canned fruit, nuts, or packaged cookies. It’s not in cute Bento boxes. It doesn’t…

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What If the Littles Grow Up Different From the Big Kids?

Posted on February 23, 2015 by Jess Connell

One of the things I was at least mildly concerned about at first, in regard to having a big family, was the common observation that in a large family, the younger children often grow up in a quite different way from how the older children were raised. Accusations sometimes go along these lines: You were…

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How I Handle Ugly Comments (About Our Large Family)

Posted on February 16, 2015 by Jess Connell

To each large family mom out there, especially you who are on the newer end of being a large family and hearing ugly comments: first, let me say, I’m sorry for the rude comments/attitudes you’ve received. We’ve gotten all the typical comments too. Back before we were a “large family,” I’d read the articles or hear…

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10 Ways We Make Time for Our Marriage (Amidst the Chaos of Large Family Life)

Posted on February 11, 2015 by Jess Connell

It can be difficult for parents in any season of life— with a newborn, with two or three little ones, with the time commitments of little league, with teens, or (as in our case) with a large family that bridges many of these “seasons”– to prioritize marriage amidst all the “busyness.” Here are 10 ways Doug and I purposefully work…

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How Do You Keep Up With All Your Kids?

Posted on February 9, 2015 by Jess Connell

Q: Is there a point where it gets difficult to care for the children’s emotional and spiritual health and actually KNOW each of them individually? Our second child is just a year old, so some of my question may be due to our recent/ongoing transition between “I can focus on just you” with our first to…

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