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When Your Family Doesn’t “Get” Your Parenting Decisions

Posted on March 2, 2020 by Jess Connell

So you’ve decided to homeschool. Or, not allow sleepovers. You don’t watch certain kinds of movies, Or, you don’t own a TV at all. Or maybe, even though they’re Christians, you’re convicted in ways that are obviously different from the convictions they have, or had. You can feel judged. They can feel judged. They can…

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Unity About Modesty Among Differences in Opinion (Biblical Modesty, Pt. 3)

Posted on May 8, 2017 by Jess Connell

{This is the 3rd of 4 articles in a series about Christian modesty. We started with what the word/idea of “modesty” even means. Then we talked through 8 questions we should consider to discern our heart.}   How can a local Body of Christ, with its own individual “culture” (country, part of the country, religious norms/background,…

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The Side God Takes in the Mommy Wars

Posted on November 10, 2016 by Jess Connell

  We’ve all heard of (and experienced) the Mommy Wars. But what is God’s view of it all? As mothers, we can feel completely removed– even from other believers– if we make a parenting choice that is contrary to what they are choosing or what they chose. No matter where you live, if you’re reading this…

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Q&A: Family Size & Living Out Challenging Personal Convictions?

Posted on March 23, 2016 by Jess Connell

Q: When I look into the future and imagine our vision for our family, I still feel at peace having as many children as God wills until we prayerfully feel that season of childbearing is over. But in the midst of it, this task seems too hard. I find myself searching for biblical motivations, but…

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August Mailbag: Circumcision? Breastfeeding in Public? When Your Child Says, “I’m Bored?”

Posted on August 31, 2015 by Jess Connell

  TO CIRCUMCISE OR NOT TO CIRCUMCISE? Q: To circumcise or not to circumcise? I’m anxious about the subject and my husband and I disagree. What do you guys do? And what were your reasons? Thanks! First, don’t be anxious (this is a biblical command for believers!) and stop reading nonsense anxiety-giving mom stuff on the…

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Convictions & Choices, part 2: What to Do When We Hold Opposite Perspectives?

Posted on December 22, 2014 by Jess Connell

In this series about convictions, we’ve talked about: Not doing something to prove people wrong, and Not doing something because other people do it. And in that last article, we left off at that pesky place where we come to a different conviction than someone else in the Body of Christ. So what do we…

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Convictions & Choices, part 1: Don’t Do It Because “They” Do

Posted on December 17, 2014 by Jess Connell

We recently talked about not doing something “just to prove them wrong.” Today I want to talk about the flip side: Don’t embrace a conviction just because others do. Just as the world often goes along with lifestyle decisions because of the people around them, Christians sometimes take on the convictions of others around us without…

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Don’t Do It To Prove Them Wrong

Posted on December 15, 2014 by Jess Connell

Over the years, I’ve heard something offered occasionally that I think is a terrible motivation for living life and making choices for yourself or your family, and it is this: “You get out there and show ’em. Do it well and prove them wrong.”  It can play out in a wide variety of ways in our…

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