Seasons of Life & Homeschooling

Seasons of Life & HomeschoolingLike parenting in general, it helps me when I think about homeschooling in terms of seasons. Each season has its own unique joys, its own unique challenges, and each is discernibly different from the one before.


Was it that way for you? (It’s not that way for everyone, so don’t feel bad if that wasn’t your experience.)

But in our home, homeschooling started out with delight…it was like spring here in the Pacific Northwest: new growth and color everywhere. There was no end to the fun of discovering new things through the eyes of my eager young learner. We’d cuddle up during the younger kids’ nap times, or during the toddler’s snacks or “blanket time”, and whisk ourselves away to biblical stories, ancient lands, and forgotten times.

Every day, or certainly every week, there were delightful things I’d notice and remark about to Doug:

  • “Wow, I used to hate history, but now I find it so fascinating. I wonder if it’s because of how it was taught?”
  • “This is incredible… his curiosity and thirst for learning is insatiable!”
  • “I can’t believe how much we can get done in so short a time!”

That season didn’t last forever, but WOW! It was delightful while it lasted.


Now, I’m not taking the literal “Spring, Summer, Fall, Winter” seasons analogy any farther, but the truth is that each length of time we spend homeschooling is like learning a new season, with a new rhythm. Some come back again and again, some are more tiring, some have too much to do, and some feel more laid back.

A little more than a year ago, I entered a heavy-duty “work” season, where I was (for the first time) homeschooling four children. Much less like the frolicking fun of the “spring” I described above, this was much more like the way a farmer puts his nose down and plows out the rows. Because he knows there is much to do, there’s not near as much time to dilly-dally and look at flowers, even if they do happen to be beautiful. Sometimes homeschooling is that way. So many things have to get done, and there’s a limit to the amount of time and energy we have to do it. So we work through it as efficiently as we can, and just “get ‘er done.”

We’ve just ended a season where we’ve, basically, “survived.” What that looked like for us was reading aloud (mostly, the kids to me, to make sure I was rightly gauging their reading progress and pronunciation), some math, and a whole lot of life skills (talking through home selling, mortgages, home buying, what a job search looks like, etc.).

And we have stepped into a season that’s more of a blend. We have some day-in, day-out “plowing,” but then I’m also reading aloud more, and playing in the floor more. We’re stopping to admire the joys (like reading “Come On, Seabiscuit” aloud with my 9-year-old, and talking through historic things like radio announcers, horse races, and life before TV/Internet), but everyone is also doing their math worksheets, Bible study, and age-/skill-specific learning, nonetheless. A little plowing, a little flower-admiring.

My point is NOT to try to make some one-size-fits-all list of all the seasons you’ll go through, but to give you encouragement and permission. I especially want to give encouragement to young homeschooling moms:

  • Homeschool in a way that you are doing what you need to do to follow the laws of your state/country.
  • Give yourself freedom (without guilt or self-loathing) to let one year/semester/season, be different from previous ones.

Pregnancies come and go. Toddlers come and go. Job changes, family illness, and other life challenges come along. Life brings a battery of challenges our way, and I try to roll with them and flex. By doing so, our life has a lot more freedom & joy, and our homeschool journey is able to keep rolling along while changing with the seasons.


Let me encourage you, if you are stressed out trying to follow a certain friend’s “model” or even trying to follow a model or plan that used to work for you but for some reason, just *doesn’t* right now, perhaps it could help you to learn to roll with the seasons of homeschooling. 

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Jess Connell

Jesus-follower, Happy wife, Mom of 8 neat people. Former world-traveler, now settled in Washington. Host of Mom On Purpose podcast ( I write and wrangle kids.

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5 Responses

  1. Bambi Moore says:

    Thanks for the “permission.” :) I can really identify. Homeschooling started 15 years ago with so much excitement (and to a smaller degree, still does at the start of each new “year.”) Yet here I am now with 5 who are currently schooling and many miles of homeschool year stretch out before me. And hello….it’s just a lot of work :) But. Blessed, wonderful work that I’m thankful for! I no longer have the guilt for the seasons you mention (seasons where just basics get done). Thanks again for the wise encouragement.

  2. This is an excellent post. I’ve been homeschooling now for 24 years — and I’ve been through all the seasons and started over again! :)

  3. Kondwani says:

    Thanks – we’ve not been at it so very long (our eldest is nearly five) but we also have these seasons. Some days, we are just out and about exploring all day – museums, art galleries, the docks, parks, gardens. Other days we read lots (that is, me reading to the boys, a range from fiction, to science, to history). Other days we do workbooks and handwriting and numeracy. As they get older, I can see that there are some things that should be done daily. So maybe even just an hour at the table each day. We never miss Bible, morning or evening, but we don’t really see that as schooling. Then again, that’s one of the great joys, (Deut 6 etc) that we build a Biblical foundation for the whole of life, and also that there is no clear line between education and ‘life’. Sometimes the best education takes place on the hoof, walking round a park, riding on a bus, in the supermarket, just living. Its refreshing to read your encouragement about these seasons, and the freedom that we have. It’s liberating to remember that each family is unique, and that there is not a ‘one size fits all’. Thanks Jess!

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