8 Verses That Help Me Fight For Contentment

8 Verses That Help Me FIGHT For Contentment

There have been so many different seasons of my life when I’ve had to *FIGHT* for contentment.

  • 7-months-pregnant in a grimy, coal-heated, 80’s-era-floral-couched, bugged (not the insect kind) apartment in China
  • Months later, when my husband got gravely sick, and we went YEARS with tons of investigation but no medical answers or reasons what had happened
  • Living across the world from my extended family, in a (different) cement-and pollution-covered city that I (initially) did not like, surrounded by people I could not speak to, with 4 kids 6 and under in a small apartment without A/C
  • When (back in the US, just a few months ago) my husband lost his job which was connected to our church and community, and we suddenly felt alone and heartbroken

Here are some verses that have been heart-strengthening in those moments when I had to FIGHT to have joy in the midst of great discouragement:

  1. Lord, You have assigned me my portion and my cup; You have made my lot secure.” ~Psalm 16:5
  2. God is the Blessed Controller of all things, the King over all kings, and the Master of all masters.” ~1 Timothy 6:15
  3. A joyful heart is good medicine, but a broken spirit dries up the bones.” ~Proverbs 17:23
  4. For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong.” ~2 Corinthians 12:10
  5. I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content.” ~Philippians 4:11
  6. There is great gain in godliness with contentment.” ~1 Timothy 6:6
  7. If we have food and clothing, with these we will be content.” ~1 Timothy 6:8
  8. Keep your life free from the love of money, and be content with what you have, for He has said, ‘I will never leave you nor forsake you.’” ~Hebrews 13:5

These are the comfort-imparting things I see in those verses:

  1. God sees my state and it has not surprised Him. HE is where my security rests, not in stuff, not in ME.
  2. God is sovereign. Over everything and everyone. Always.
  3. Opt for joy. Sorrow and discontentment will dry me up and burn me out.
  4. Because of Christ, I can be content in the midst of crummy things. My weakness will ultimately lead me to find refuge in the only One Who is strong. When I finally come to the end of myself, THAT is when strength from God will supply the places that I so obviously LACK.
  5. Contentment is something I must *learn*. That learning can happen in ANY situation.
  6. It is GAIN to me if I seek godliness alongside contentment.
  7. Food and clothing are my needs. (Other things are wants.) I need to choose to be content with the way God has already met my needs.
  8. “What I have” is enough; I need to choose to be content with it. I’ve got to keep my eyes off of money and get them onto the ONE Who will never leave me or forsake me. In the way my heart grasps for something eternal on which I can depend, money will never satisfy: only God is dependable.

How is God growing you in contentment right now? 

  • What verse(s) would you add to this list?
  • What lessons has He taught (or is He teaching) you about contentment in the midst of hard things?

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Jess Connell

Jesus-follower, Happy wife, Mom of 8 neat people. Former world-traveler, now settled in Washington. Host of Mom On Purpose podcast (momonpurpose.com). I write and wrangle kids.

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5 Responses

  1. Madelyn says:

    How to truly be content when you are in the midst of unimaginably awful and tragic circumstances? Our church family recently lost a young person tragically…To come alongside her mother and stay there, we must comprehend (as best we can) her ongoing state of loss, and must choose not to just go on with our lives. To find contentment, even there, would be supernatural. Praise God he makes it possible, but we may find it hard to do.

  2. Kari says:

    In everything give thanks. 1Thessalonians 5:18

    The Psalms are loaded with blessings for those who are thankful. If we are thankful for what we have, we are not looking for more.

  3. Kondwani says:

    You’ve given the key verses for me – Paul, when he talked about learning to be content in any circumstance (and the important thing here, is being equally content in times of plenty!), and the advice to Timothy that ‘godliness with contentment is great gain’. Have you read ‘the rare jewel of Christian contentment’ by one of the old puritan writers? Full of beautful, rich, godly wisdom.
    I think it is contentment that really distinguishes us as Christians from the world around us. There is such a culture of moaning and self-pity that just breeds discontent, and henceforth a negative spiral of despair and despondency. As Christians we can rise above that, knowing that God has given us ‘our lot’ from His wisdom, and that all things can bring Him glory.I
    I pray that your life continues to radiate thankfullness, contentment and godliness to those around you, particularly to those six little disciples you are raising.

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